Hymenoplasty is a surgical procedure performed to reconstruct or repair the hymen, a delicate membrane located near the vaginal opening. By reconstructing and repairing a torn hymen this procedure holds potential to restore and redefine the concepts of virginity and femininity and therefore gaining significant attention in India and worldwide. The procedure has become increasingly popular among young and adult individuals who are open and frank about their sexual preferences and desires.
“This blog is dedicated to the individuals who prioritize making informed choices regarding their health and sexual well-being, while also challenging the misconception that a woman’s worth is defined by the presence of a small membrane.”
I am Dr. Surbhi Singh, a cosmetic gynaecologist. Throughout my 17-year career as a professional gynaecologist, I have encountered many instances where a woman is often considered fully pure and wholly devoted to her husband only if the blood is observed on their wedding night. Men frequently boast in their social circles about “breaking the seal,” further perpetuating this notion of purity. Our society still equates the presence or absence of blood with virginity and sexual experience. I have seen numerous grooms envisioning, and becoming overly excited about the breaking of the hymen, as they consider it a symbol of virginity. I have also witnessed disgruntled husbands becoming suspicious of their wife because they are worried about the absence of blood on the wedding night.
The idea that virginity in India is still based only on the presence of blood from hymen ripping on the first night is perpetuated by all of these cases, which is, although a limited and false perspective yet this glorification has led to an increased demand for hymenoplasty among those who do not have an intact hymen, as individuals seek to conform to these societal expectations.
Tearing the Hymen During First Intercourse: A Myth!
The belief that the hymen necessarily tears during first intercourse is a widespread misconception. Many girls who engage in sports, go to the gym, cycle, or participate in other vigorous physical activities may inadvertently tear this membrane without even realizing it. This means that a woman can have a torn hymen without ever having had intercourse.
Additionally, the notion that having first intercourse with an intact hymen provides immense pleasure to the male partner is also a myth. The pleasure experienced during intercourse largely depends on emotional connection and individual feelings; in fact, the nature of pleasure is predominantly psychological rather than purely physical.
It’s also important to note that the hymen varies significantly from person to person, and its appearance does not determine virginity or sexual experience. If there are concerns about hymenal types or related health issues, consulting a healthcare professional is recommended.
Also there are people who are born with NO HYMEN or with Residual Hymen from birth, which is absolutely normal.
Types of Hymen:-
The hymen comes in various forms and is not a uniform membrane. Its structure can range from thin and elastic to thicker and less flexible. Some individuals may have a very minimal hymenal tissue that may not tear at all during intercourse.
It is essential to understand that hymens are perforated tissues that vary in texture and shape among individuals. They can be classified into several types, including annular, fimbriated, septate, cribriform, microperforated, and imperforate. Among these, the annular hymen is the most common type, characterized by a circular opening at the centre. This type allows for menstrual flow and is relatively flexible. The fimbriated hymen, known for its fringed edges, is considered the most elastic type.
Overall, Anatomically, Each individual is different, and the experiences associated with first intercourse can vary widely. Many women do not experience pain or bleeding during their first sexual encounter, regardless of whether they have an intact hymen.
Hymenoplasty as a Savior for Those Without a Hymen.
Hymenoplasty serves as a solution for individuals who do not have a hymen but wish to experience the sensation of it being “broken,” or for those who have lost it for any reason. This procedure can also be sought by individuals who have engaged in sexual intercourse and wish to restore their hymen to adhere to traditional values or re-live the sexual experience.
The Procedure, eligibility and Post Care:
Here are important considerations for anyone considering this procedure.
Hymenoplasty is performed by stitching the membrane using a dissolvable suture, which means There is no need to cut the suture after surgery because a dissolvable suture is used to sew it. If there is not enough tissue available, labial tissue is used, and for people who do not have a hymen, an artificial approach is used to replace it.
You cannot have a history of genital cancer or venereal illness. Only adults are eligible for hymenoplasty since you have to be of legal consenting age. and abstaining from smoking is also a need.
After a hymenoplasty, you should take care of your hygiene, take your medicine as prescribed, follow your doctor’s instructions, refrain from having intercourse until you are cleared to do so, and be positive with the outcome.
Conclusion:
Hymenoplasty can offer significant medical and psychological benefits, often resulting in positive outcomes. However, it’s crucial to approach the procedure with the right mindset. Also consulting a certified surgeon with expertise in cosmetic gynaecology is crucial because they can help you determine whether the procedure is right for you, precautions, and taking care of yourself better.
And lastly, If you’re considering hymenoplasty, remember that your eligibility isn’t defined by the hymen itself. Your value, purity, and happiness are not determined by a small piece of tissue. Choose this for yourself, not as a way to prove your virginity. Instead, embrace your life fearlessly and on your own terms. Your journey is yours to define.
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